Domestic
divide is closing
Men
are doing more aroundthe house as women
spend
more time in paid work, a study has found.
An
analysis of studies from 1986 to 2005 by
University of Queensland researchers has
found a narrowing of the gender gap when it
comes to hours worked in the office and at
home.
More
than 2400 people were surveyed over that
time and divided into those in "new
traditional" partnerships where the man
worked full-time and the woman worked
part-time, and "dual-earner"
couples where both worked full-time.
Couples
who worked full-time were found to spend
roughly the same amount of time in paid and
unpaid work over the week, 66.88 hours for
men and 67.47 hours for women in 2005.
Women
were more likely to do housework than men
but by 2005 the gap between them had started
to close: men in 1986 were doing 12 hours
less housework than women, compared to
around 5.5 hours in 2005. However, paid
working hours for men and women had not
changed much over the time, suggesting there
had been a "disinvestment" by
women in the value of housework, researchers
said.
Domestic
work
Among
"new traditional" families, men
spent roughly 25 hours more a week in paid
work but also did more domestic work as
women did less housework.
Researcher
Jenny Chesters said the findings showed
there was a change among couples' approach
to sharing work and home responsibilities.
But the gender revolution may not have
necessarily continued once couples have
children. Women with dependent children were
found to still spend similar time doing
housework over the two decades, more than
double the amount men spent and between 11%
and 12% more than women without children.
"What's
essentially happening is they are
increasingly doing less paid work hours and
more housework hours," Chesters said.
"Once they have children they are
essentially choosing part-time (paid)
work."
Child
care-related tasks such as changing nappies
and taking children to school were not
included in the analysis as each study
defined child care differently.
The
world's richest dropouts
Michael
Dell enrolled as a biology major at
University of Texas but spent more time
fiddling with stacks of computer parts in
his dorm room than hitting up the library.
Instead of studying, he started selling new
computers through advertisements in local
papers.
It
was a lucrative distraction. By the end of
his freshman year, Dell was selling about
$80,000 a month in computers. With the money
rolling in, Dell decided not to return to
school.
He
dropped out of college at 19 to run the
company that would become Dell Inc. Within
the next few years, Dell's annual sales
passed US$100 million. This March, Forbes'
pegged Michael Dell's net worth at US$ 16.4
billion.
The
most recent list of the world's richest
included 1,125 billionaires. At least 73 of
them, like Dell, dropped out of some stage
of schooling.
Work
hard
Those
73 are like Dell in another way too: They
didn't drop out to watch daytime television
on the couch. They left school to work hard.
Dell
explained his attitude to University of
Texas grads at a 2003 commencement address:
"Circle the pitfalls and highlight the
opportunities. Then build a vision of how it
could all be better and work like hell to
make it happen."
Sheldon
Adelson is another billionaire lacking a
degree but possessing plenty of hustle.
Adelson enrolled at City College of New York
but didn't finish, probably because he was
too busy with other ventures.
When
he was 12, Adelson borrowed US$ 200 from his
uncle to start selling newspapers. He
dropped out of college to become a court
reporter. He also worked as an ad salesman,
a consultant, and a tour-business operator.
That
relentless drive led him to his first big
windfall. He organised the computer industry
trade show Comdex and made handsome profits
leasing out exhibition space. He's since
jumped into casinos, where he's been adding
to his fortune ever since. In Forbes'
most recent list of the world's
billionaires, he ranked 12th with a net
worth of US$ 26 billion.
Lousy
student
Some
billionaires didn't even make it as far as
Adelson in school. Richard Branson, who had
dyslexia, was a lousy student. He dropped
out at 16 to start a magazine.
To
fund the publication, he also started a
mail-order record business; the venture grew
into Virgin Records. He took a risk by
signing a raucous band called the Sex
Pistols, which had already been cut from two
other labels. Other hit acts followed,
including Boy George and Peter Gabriel.
Plenty
of other companies have followed as well.
He's since expanded into airlines, health
insurance and medical care. Next stop:
space. His latest company is Virgin
Galactic, which hopes to shoot tourists
beyond the Earth's atmosphere.
But
don't get the idea from these billionaire
dropouts that school is worthless. Even the
world's most famous dropout (and the
third-richest man) acknowledges the
importance of a good education.
Bill
Gates left Harvard during his junior year to
work on a little company he'd started called
Microsoft. He recently testified before
Congress on the importance of improving the
US education system.
"Too
many of our students fail to graduate from
high school with the basic skills they will
need to succeed in the 21st-century economy,
much less prepared for the rigours of
college and career," said Gates.
School
has other benefits too, like who you meet.
In 2000, billionaire Steve Ballmer took over
the role of chief executive of Microsoft
from Gates. The two lived down the hall from
each other while they were both students at
Harvard.
Doing
things Lankan style
Hi,
Chee Chee Corea was
looking forward to the strike. Why? he
wanted all his friends to be at home too.
Thereby the market would be in a holiday
mood and in the right frame of mind to have
an extra drink or two. He would also get an
opportunity to share the following stories;
This is a story of a 16
year old boy from San Bandick who won
the world’s shortest essay competition.
He was awarded a
scholarship at Harvard University for his
imagination and humour. He was asked to
write a concise essay containing the
following elements:
1) Religion 2) Royalty 3)
Sex 4) Mystery
The prize-winner wrote:
‘My God,’ said the
Queen, ‘I’m pregnant. I wonder who the
father is.’
........................
Two Italian men get on a
bus. They sit down and engage in animated
conversation.
The lady sitting next to
them ignores them at first, but her
attention is galvanised when she hears one
of them say the following: ‘Emma comes
First.. Den I come. Den two asses come
together. I come once-a-more! Two asses;
They come together again. I come again and
pee twice. Then I come one lasta time.’
The lady can’t take
this any more, ‘You foul-mouthed
sex-obsessed pig,’ she retorted
indignantly.’ In this country, we don’t
speak aloud in public places about our sex
lives.’
‘Hey, coola down lady,’
said the man. ‘Who talkin’ abouta sex? I’m
a justa tellin my frienda how to spell ‘Mississippi."
…………………..
Typical Lankans
A Sri Lankan family in
Nugegoda was puzzled when the coffin of
their dead mother arrived from Canada. It
was sent by one of the daughters settled in
Vancouver. The dead body was very tightly
squeezed inside the coffin, with no space
left in it! When they opened the lid, they
found a letter on top, which read as
follows:
‘Dear brothers and
sisters,I am sending our mother’s body to
you since it was her last wish that: She
should be buried only in the cemetery of the
All Saints Church in Borella. And also she
told me to tell all of you that you should
use A.F. Raymond for embalm works not Barney
Raymond or Jayaratne.
For alms giving she said
not to invite the entire town and the
distant relatives. She said to order (only
for our four families) 65 packets of mutton
biriyani from Hotel Buhari at Maradana and
open only 12 bottles of Special Arrack for
the guys and only one case of Three Coins
for the ladies. One more thing she was very
particular about the hearse, which her
coffin should carry from our home to Borella,
should be 2002 model Buick Automatic. She
doesn’t like manual gear old vehicles.
Don’t forget these
underlined requests are from her last wish.
Sorry, I could not come
along as all of my paid leave are consumed
and hopefully this time the God will look at
us and blessed with a boy.
Ajith is working like a
donkey for 20 hours a day for three
companies to save some money for the dowries
of girls..... Anyway, let’s go back to
Ammi’s funeral business.
You will find inside the
coffin, under Ammi’s body, 12 cans of
Kraft cheese,10 packets of M&M
chocolates, 1 box of Kit Kat, 8 packets of
Wrigley’s Chewing Gum, 6 tins of corned
beef, 24 packets of Maggie instant noodles
and 12 packets each jelly and custard
powder. Please divide these among all of
you. On Ammi’s feet you will find new pair
of Reebok shoes (size 10) for Mangalika.
Also, there are two pairs of shoes for Rosy’s
and Bernard’s sons. Hope the sizes are
correct.
Ammi is wearing 6
American T-Shirts. The large size is for
Mangalika and the others are for my nephews.
Just distribute them among yourselves. The 2
new Levi’s Jeans that Ammi is wearing are
for the boys (Lanka & Nilanka). The
Swiss watch that Lakmali wanted is on Ammi’s
left hand. The silver colour bangle on Ammi’s
right hand is for Lakshmi who became a big
girl five years back.
Josephine Aunty, please,
please remove and take the necklace,
earrings and the ring that you are waiting
for the past 20 years saying that Ammi had
taken twenty five thousand rupees against
them for my Akki’s wedding. Aunty, I will
beg you now to stop telling every one about
this money matter. These gold worth more
than that and I can get fifty thousand from
Hetti Uncle if I go to Jayalalitha’s.
The 6 white cotton socks
that Ammi is wearing must be divided among
my teenage nephews. And also there are 4
bras Ammi is wearing. Give two to
Seelawathi who is our servant lady and the
remaining two you can give one to next door
Charlet Aunty and one to Dhoby Nenda.
Please distribute all
these uniformly and if anything more
required let me know, since our Thaththi is
also not keeping well nowadays; so I can
send with him the same way. This way is much
easy, cheaper and you don’t need to worry
about customs too. Don’t worry about the
death notice, Thathi said when he goes to
Colombo for his funeral we could put a big
notice in the paper and put Ammi’s details
too. Thathi also mentioned that Ammi
has done it in her own way, which is good.
But he would like to look
after his relations, because they helped him
to go to Canada, Bankku Mama, Pechan Somey
the guy who used to bring the race card from
the bookie and Mangalika Nenda, who used to
come and rub the medicine oil when Ammi had
gone to work. That Mangalika Nenda’s podi
akka looks just like Malli. I told
Thathi see the photo and he said what
rubbish that we were blind, anyway now Ammi
is gone and shortly Thathi will join her and
we will be by our selfs, that’s life.
Bye... Shanti
Ta ra and see you next
week,
— Rabbada Aiya
What the...
Bush
sorry over Berlusconi insult
The White House has
apologised to Italian PM Silvio Berlusconi
for a briefing describing him as a political
"amateur" who is "hated by
many."
The "insulting"
biography was included in a press kit
distributed to reporters travelling with
President George W. Bush to a meeting of
world leaders in Japan.
He was "one of the
most controversial leaders" of a
country "known for governmental
corruption and vice."
Only last month, Bush
visited his old ally, calling him a
"good friend."
The four-page description
of Berlusconi had been taken from the Encyclopedia
of World Biography.
India
beggar amasses coin fortune
When 60-year-old Laxmi Das recently
deposited her earnings in an Indian bank in
Calcutta, it was a bit more than the usual
mundane money transfer.
Das handed over 91kg
(200lb) of coins - the produce of 44 years
of hard begging — enabling her to open an
account and qualify for a credit card.
Laxmi began begging near
Hatibagan, a busy road junction in northern
Calcutta, at the age of 16.
Officials say she could
have saved as much as 30,000 rupees ($692).
Thought for the day --
Democracy and non-vilence
Democracy and violence can ill go
together. The states that are today
nominally democratic have either to become
frankly totalitarian or, if they are to
become truly democratic, they must become
courageously non-violent. It is a blasphemy
to say that non-violence can only be
practised by individuals and never by
nations which are composed of individuals.
The true democrat is he who with purely
non-violent means defends his liberty and,
therefore, his country’s and ultimately
that of the whole of mankind.
— M. K. Gandhi
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