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  The world's richest dropouts   What the... Rabbada Aiya


Domestic divide is closing

Men are doing more aroundthe house as women spend
more time in paid work, a study has found.

An analysis of studies from 1986 to 2005 by University of Queensland researchers has found a narrowing of the gender gap when it comes to hours worked in the office and at home.

More than 2400 people were surveyed over that time and divided into those in "new traditional" partnerships where the man worked full-time and the woman worked part-time, and "dual-earner" couples where both worked full-time.

Couples who worked full-time were found to spend roughly the same amount of time in paid and unpaid work over the week, 66.88 hours for men and 67.47 hours for women in 2005.

Women were more likely to do housework than men but by 2005 the gap between them had started to close: men in 1986 were doing 12 hours less housework than women, compared to around 5.5 hours in 2005. However, paid working hours for men and women had not changed much over the time, suggesting there had been a "disinvestment" by women in the value of housework, researchers said.

Domestic work

Among "new traditional" families, men spent roughly 25 hours more a week in paid work but also did more domestic work as women did less housework.

Researcher Jenny Chesters said the findings showed there was a change among couples' approach to sharing work and home responsibilities. But the gender revolution may not have necessarily continued once couples have children. Women with dependent children were found to still spend similar time doing housework over the two decades, more than double the amount men spent and between 11% and 12% more than women without children.

"What's essentially happening is they are increasingly doing less paid work hours and more housework hours," Chesters said. "Once they have children they are essentially choosing part-time (paid) work."

Child care-related tasks such as changing nappies and taking children to school were not included in the analysis as each study defined child care differently.


The world's richest dropouts

Michael Dell enrolled as a biology major at University of Texas but spent more time fiddling with stacks of computer parts in his dorm room than hitting up the library. Instead of studying, he started selling new computers through advertisements in local papers.

It was a lucrative distraction. By the end of his freshman year, Dell was selling about $80,000 a month in computers. With the money rolling in, Dell decided not to return to school.

He dropped out of college at 19 to run the company that would become Dell Inc. Within the next few years, Dell's annual sales passed US$100 million. This March, Forbes' pegged Michael Dell's net worth at US$ 16.4 billion.

The most recent list of the world's richest included 1,125 billionaires. At least 73 of them, like Dell, dropped out of some stage of schooling.

Work hard

Those 73 are like Dell in another way too: They didn't drop out to watch daytime television on the couch. They left school to work hard.

Dell explained his attitude to University of Texas grads at a 2003 commencement address: "Circle the pitfalls and highlight the opportunities. Then build a vision of how it could all be better and work like hell to make it happen."

Sheldon Adelson is another billionaire lacking a degree but possessing plenty of hustle. Adelson enrolled at City College of New York but didn't finish, probably because he was too busy with other ventures.

When he was 12, Adelson borrowed US$ 200 from his uncle to start selling newspapers. He dropped out of college to become a court reporter. He also worked as an ad salesman, a consultant, and a tour-business operator.

That relentless drive led him to his first big windfall. He organised the computer industry trade show Comdex and made handsome profits leasing out exhibition space. He's since jumped into casinos, where he's been adding to his fortune ever since. In Forbes' most recent list of the world's billionaires, he ranked 12th with a net worth of US$ 26 billion.

Lousy student

Some billionaires didn't even make it as far as Adelson in school. Richard Branson, who had dyslexia, was a lousy student. He dropped out at 16 to start a magazine.

To fund the publication, he also started a mail-order record business; the venture grew into Virgin Records. He took a risk by signing a raucous band called the Sex Pistols, which had already been cut from two other labels. Other hit acts followed, including Boy George and Peter Gabriel.

Plenty of other companies have followed as well. He's since expanded into airlines, health insurance and medical care. Next stop: space. His latest company is Virgin Galactic, which hopes to shoot tourists beyond the Earth's atmosphere.

But don't get the idea from these billionaire dropouts that school is worthless. Even the world's most famous dropout (and the third-richest man) acknowledges the importance of a good education.

Bill Gates left Harvard during his junior year to work on a little company he'd started called Microsoft. He recently testified before Congress on the importance of improving the US education system.

"Too many of our students fail to graduate from high school with the basic skills they will need to succeed in the 21st-century economy, much less prepared for the rigours of college and career," said Gates.

School has other benefits too, like who you meet. In 2000, billionaire Steve Ballmer took over the role of chief executive of Microsoft from Gates. The two lived down the hall from each other while they were both students at Harvard.


Doing things Lankan style

Hi,

Chee Chee Corea was looking forward to the strike. Why? he wanted all his friends to be at home too. Thereby the market would be in a holiday mood and in the right frame of mind to have an extra drink or two. He would also get an opportunity to share the following stories;

This is a story of a 16 year old boy from San Bandick  who won the world’s shortest essay competition.

He was awarded a scholarship at Harvard University for his imagination and humour. He was asked to write a concise essay containing the following elements:

1) Religion 2) Royalty 3) Sex 4) Mystery

The prize-winner wrote:

‘My God,’ said the Queen, ‘I’m pregnant. I wonder who the father is.’

........................

Two Italian men get on a bus. They sit down and engage in animated conversation.

The lady sitting next to them ignores them at first, but her attention is galvanised when she hears one of them say the following: ‘Emma comes First.. Den I come. Den two asses come together. I come once-a-more! Two asses; They come together again. I come again and pee twice. Then I come one lasta time.’

The lady can’t take this any more, ‘You foul-mouthed sex-obsessed pig,’ she retorted indignantly.’ In this country, we don’t speak aloud in public places about our sex lives.’

‘Hey, coola down lady,’ said the man. ‘Who talkin’ abouta sex? I’m a justa tellin my frienda how to spell ‘Mississippi."

…………………..

Typical Lankans

A Sri Lankan family in Nugegoda was puzzled when the coffin of their dead mother arrived from Canada. It was sent by one of the daughters settled in Vancouver. The dead body was very tightly squeezed inside the coffin, with no space left in it! When they opened the lid, they found a letter on top, which read as follows:

‘Dear brothers and sisters,I am sending our mother’s body to you since it was her last wish that: She should be buried only in the cemetery of the All Saints Church in Borella. And also she told me to tell all of you that you should use A.F. Raymond for embalm works not Barney Raymond or Jayaratne.

For alms giving she said not to invite the entire town and the distant relatives. She said to order (only for our four families) 65 packets of mutton biriyani from Hotel Buhari at Maradana and open only 12 bottles of Special Arrack for the guys and only one case of Three Coins for the ladies. One more thing she was very particular about the hearse, which her coffin should carry from our home to Borella, should be 2002 model Buick Automatic. She doesn’t like manual gear old vehicles.

Don’t forget these underlined requests are from her last wish.

Sorry, I could not come along as all of my paid leave are consumed and hopefully this time the God will look at us and blessed with a boy.

Ajith is working like a donkey for 20 hours a day for three companies to save some money for the dowries of girls..... Anyway, let’s go back to Ammi’s funeral business.

You will find inside the coffin, under Ammi’s body, 12 cans of Kraft cheese,10 packets of M&M chocolates, 1 box of Kit Kat, 8 packets of Wrigley’s Chewing Gum, 6 tins of corned beef, 24 packets of Maggie instant noodles and 12 packets each jelly and custard powder. Please divide these among all of you. On Ammi’s feet you will find new pair of Reebok shoes (size 10) for Mangalika. Also, there are two pairs of shoes for Rosy’s and Bernard’s sons. Hope the sizes are correct.

Ammi is wearing 6 American T-Shirts. The large size is for Mangalika and the others are for my nephews. Just distribute them among yourselves. The 2 new Levi’s Jeans that Ammi is wearing are for the boys (Lanka & Nilanka). The Swiss watch that Lakmali wanted is on Ammi’s left hand. The silver colour bangle on Ammi’s right hand is for Lakshmi who became a big girl five years back.

Josephine Aunty, please, please remove and take the necklace, earrings and the ring that you are waiting for the past 20 years saying that Ammi had taken twenty five thousand rupees against them for my Akki’s wedding. Aunty, I will beg you now to stop telling every one about this money matter. These gold worth more than that and I can get fifty thousand from Hetti Uncle if I go to Jayalalitha’s.

The 6 white cotton socks that Ammi is wearing must be divided among my teenage nephews. And also there are 4 bras Ammi is wearing. Give two to  Seelawathi who is our servant lady and the remaining two you can give one to next door Charlet Aunty and one to Dhoby Nenda.

Please distribute all these uniformly and if anything more required let me know, since our Thaththi is also not keeping well nowadays; so I can send with him the same way. This way is much easy, cheaper and you don’t need to worry about customs too. Don’t worry about the death notice, Thathi said when he goes to Colombo for his funeral we could put a big notice in the paper and put Ammi’s details too.  Thathi also mentioned that Ammi has done it in her own way, which is good.

But he would like to look after his relations, because they helped him to go to Canada, Bankku Mama, Pechan Somey the guy who used to bring the race card from the bookie and Mangalika Nenda, who used to come and rub the medicine oil when Ammi had gone to work. That Mangalika Nenda’s podi akka looks just like Malli. I told Thathi see the photo and he said what rubbish that we were blind, anyway now Ammi is gone and shortly Thathi will join her and we will be by our selfs, that’s life.

Bye... Shanti

Ta ra and see you next week,

— Rabbada Aiya 


What the...

Bush sorry over Berlusconi insult

The White House has apologised to Italian PM Silvio Berlusconi for a briefing describing him as a political "amateur" who is "hated by many."

The "insulting" biography was included in a press kit distributed to reporters travelling with President George W. Bush to a meeting of world leaders in Japan.

He was "one of the most controversial leaders" of a country "known for governmental corruption and vice."

Only last month, Bush visited his old ally, calling him a "good friend."

The four-page description of Berlusconi had been taken from the Encyclopedia of World Biography.

India beggar amasses coin fortune

When 60-year-old Laxmi Das recently deposited her earnings in an Indian bank in Calcutta, it was a bit more than the usual mundane money transfer.

Das handed over 91kg (200lb) of coins - the produce of 44 years of hard begging — enabling her to open an account and qualify for a credit card.

Laxmi began begging near Hatibagan, a busy road junction in northern Calcutta, at the age of 16.

Officials say she could have saved as much as 30,000 rupees ($692).


Thought for the day -- Democracy and non-vilence

Democracy and violence can ill go together. The states that are today nominally democratic have either to become frankly totalitarian or, if they are to become truly democratic, they must become courageously non-violent. It is a blasphemy to say that non-violence can only be practised by individuals and never by nations which are composed of individuals.

The true democrat is he who with purely non-violent means defends his liberty and, therefore, his country’s and ultimately that of the whole of mankind.

M. K. Gandhi

 

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