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The straw would give way to the cross


Infant Jesus with Mary

 

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Children without Christmas

 

Save the animals from crackers this season

 

Of yule logs and other Christmas goodies


 

Fashion


HUMOUR


By Lakshman de Silva

Christmas of 2008 began with the lighting of crackers from midnight of December 1till dawn. This happy season would prevail till January 6, the feast of the three wise men, who came to see baby Jesus from the East.

Christmas is the season of profession of faith everywhere by overt signs and utterances, prayers and songs so that the whole world may know that December 25, is the birthday of Jesus Christ, God and man.

This God-man, whose body was made from the flesh and blood of Mary, came to Earth to offer satisfaction to God the Father and to redeem man for the sin of Adam.

The Church celebrates Christmas with the preceding season of Advent of four weeks before Christmas, by way of prayer and penance on the spiritual level. On the material level the people also shop to buy clothes, shoes, toys and firecrackers. The making of the Christmas cake is also a specialty in many homes.

The crib

When Christmas nears, the making of the crib takes prominence in homes. The children especially take delight in seeing the Baby Jesus with his mother and foster father in the midst of cattle, sheep and the three wise men.

The straw in the crib which kept the babe warm in this temporary home would make way 33 years later to a cross on which he would suffer and hang for three hours. Then the cross would be a suffering home to him to offer satisfaction to his Heavenly Father and also redeem humanity. He came to this Earth for this.

The sign of this suffering would go on till the end of the world, by the holy sacrifice of the mass celebrated by priests every morning.

Holy Mass

 Saint (Padre) Pio who was a stigmatic for 50 years, and died in 1968 said, "the world needs the Holy Mass more than the Sun."

Even though Adam's sin was an offence to God, God draws greater good from the bad. With his redemption he brought this sinful humanity to a greater good by giving his beatific vision - being immersed in God - after death making it the reward for those who save themselves with sincere repentance, and a life lived in prayer.

Skeptical teachings

Unless we become as little children we shall never know the story of the world. Parents who have sent their sons and daughters to colleges in the world know how the minds of those sons and daughters have been warped and darkened by the skeptical teaching of unbelieving professors who think the Bible is an unimportant book and that their own publications are the last word on the mystery of human life and indeed the Universe.

The entire set up of the Roman Empire was changed - and eventually Christianised - not because Jesus was reputed to be a deity, for the Romans had plenty of gods. What changed the Roman Empire was the news that the one Almighty and Eternal God had become man in the womb of Mary of Nazareth and had suffered and died on the cross. This caused the conversion of pagan Rome.

A sign in the sky

Constantine the great Emperor of Rome, was not converted to the faith by discussing Christianity with a philosopher. He was converted by seeing a sign in the sky. It was a cross he saw, such as the one Jesus died on for the love of us. The message was "In this sign thou shall conquer."

The childlike quality which the eternal word was to take as the child of the Virgin Mary is the secret of Christianity. The Bible is the universal depository of medicine for the cure of all souls. The Old Testament is the Gospel veiled. The New Testament is the prophesy of the Old Testament unveiled.


Children without Christmas


A long wait for Santa: It's been four long years

By Ranee Mohamed

Christmas four years ago was their last Christmas. For the very next day after Christmas came the wave of anguish. Ever since, the tsunami these children and their parents have only lived with the memory of their last Christmas, year after year.

And this year too as Christmas dawns, they have no Christmas clothes, no Santa Claus and no Christmas cake.

"There are 52 families here and few of us have just managed a piece of bread," said Jayalath, wearing his silver cross prominently around his neck. "I am a good Christian, but my pocket is empty and there is no way in which I can have a meal on Christmas Day," said Jayalath.

"For us Christmas Day will be a difficult day for all the shops will be closed and there will be no way for us to buy a loaf of bread. People will be at home celebrating this great holiday and there will be no one to throw us a few rupees," said Ranjani, holding close her three children.

No food 

"I do not think anyone has endured such suffering as we have. We have no food and we have no clothes, but the most painful of them all is to watch the way our children suffer. They  don't have proper clothes, meals. They have not tasted milk in months," said Manel Lakmali.

"I am 74 years old. I have no income and no food," said Somawathi, helplessness written all over her face as she clutched an empty bag. "I wish I had some food and some malted milk to drink. Look at my wounds, I have fallen down so many times I can't place from which fall I got these wounds," said Somawathi showing deep scars that stood out in her ageing skin.

"I wish I had the means to give my children a meal on Christmas Day," said Premawathi, another mother of three.

Heenmenika walks very slowly. The cancer in her stomach is causing her pain, but the pain of hunger is greater, she insists. "I am helpless. I am without any money and any kind of income," says Heenmenika, tears welling up in her eyes at the thought of her own helplessness.

Two Jacinthas

There are two Jacinthas here and both of them are equally helpless, Jacintha Fernando has malnourishment written all over her face. "I am struggling to give a better life to my two grandchildren. I wish I had some gifts and good food to give them on Christmas Day," she wished.

There was anguish written over the faces of the mothers as they wondered with their chins buried in their palms.

Without an income and with so many mouths to feed, the mothers in this tsunami camp, called Karmanthapura sitting in the middle of Galle Road in Golu Madama, Ratmalana is hardly ever noticed. The ramshackle grey building has a colour combination to suit the mood and the lives of the people living in it.

The darkness and gloom at mid day makes this building a part of hell on earth. Here is a place no one would want to step in to. A little boutique with a few small onions, some turmeric and chillie powder and a few small sweets in dirty little bottles is their supermarket. But there is hardly anyone here to shop.

Torn, damp clothing hung out to dry also serves the double purpose of separating out each one's space from the other.

Pregnant women and new borns clinging on to their emaciated mothers, all take shelter here in this dark, dirty building.

"We have no electricity since January and at night-time swarms of mosquitoes take over. We have no money to buy mosquito coils. Our children are ill everyday and we have to watch them suffer," said a group of people here who say that they are trying their best to look into the welfare of those living here, but have little or no power to change things.

New houses promised

"We have been told that we will be given alternative places to live. We are being told that houses will be given, today, tomorrow, next week, next month...and so on. But nothing has ever happened," they cried.

The rainy days and nights together with the mosquitoes makes this hell-hole an unforgettable nightmare for the little ones. As the water floods their sleeping places, their parents are unable to see where the water is coming from and where the escape route lies. Such is the darkness that fills this building.

There is darkness during the day and there is no way out of the gloom that fills it at nightfall. Without money to light their bottle lamps, there is hopelessness all around.

The laughter of children is the only sound of happiness here. Yet by evening the laughter turns to cries as the hunger grips their little stomachs.

Despite the pain of hunger, their request is for Santa Claus and for toys. So many children, yet not a single toy in their hands, is a difficult state to understand given the colour and prosperity around us.

"Can we write a letter to Santa Claus," they ask us. The doubt and uncertainty in their voices tell us that Santa has never turned up in the last four years - and it unlikely that he will on this Christmas Day in 2008.

  


Save the animals from crackers this season

By Risidra Mendis

It is once again the time of year when most people are getting ready to celebrate the festivi-ties of the season and their long awaited holidays. It is also the time of the year when many people give and receive gifts from their friends and loved ones as it is the Christmas and New Year season.

For others it is a celebration of saying good-bye to the old year and ushering in the New Year. The dawn of the New Year is most often celebrated with the lighting of fire crackers, and December 31 dinners, dances and parties. Religious institutions also celebrate the dawn of the New Year by conducting religious observances.

But while all this merry making and religious observances go on the stray dogs and cats on the streets all over the country are most often forgotten. These strays who are known to survive on the left over food thrown in garbage dumps have to fend for themselves as almost all shops and offices are closed for Christmas and New Year.

Some strays however are more fortunate than others, because they are regularly fed by kind animal lovers who are concerned about their welfare.

Fend for themselves

But during the holiday season in some cases even the strays who are regularly fed have to fend for themselves as people go on long vacations. The lighting of fire crackers on roads and by lanes has also resulted in traumatising many strays and even house dogs whose owners most often are out celebrating the dawn of the New Year.

Careless lighting of crackers in public places such as on roads and by lanes has resulted in not only stray dogs and cats but also household animals being traumatised.

Speaking to The Sunday Leader President, Sathva Mithra, Sargarica Rajakarunanayake said the holiday season is a tough time for the strays. "We all know that community people feed the strays in their areas. But during this time of the year when these people go home to their villages the poor strays have no food. Females that have recently littered can be seen on the roads in their skeleton forms roaming the streets in search of food. Our only hope as animal lovers is that other people in these areas take the initiative to give these strays some food until those who regularly feed them return," Rajakarunanayake said.

Make sure animals are fed

Another animal lover Udayangani Jayawardene said when she gets holidays from her office during the festive season she makes sure that somebody else feeds the animals.

"I feed the dogs in the office and the stray dogs on the roads close by. When the office is closed during the Christmas and New Year holidays I give the security officers money to buy some food for these animals. In some cases I ask the security officers to feed the animals while I'm on holiday. What people don't understand is that once you start feeding a stray dog or cat that animal expects you to feed it everyday," Jayawardene said.

Commenting on the lighting of crackers during the festive season Rajakarunanayake said people should be cautious when lighting crackers to celebrate Christmas and the New Year. "Children should be taught to be careful when lighting crackers especially in areas where there are stray dogs and cats on the roads. Just like the house dog the stray dog and cat are also afraid of the loud sound of crackers," Rajakarunanayake said.

She went on to say that  there are incidents where house dogs have run away from homes for the loud sounds of crackers. "Some of these dogs even get lost and cannot find their way back home. Stray dogs and cats on the other hand hide in drains to avoid the crackers during this time of the year," Rajakarunanayake added.

Fun for some

Lighting of fire crackers maybe fun for some but for the innocent strays it is a traumatic experience that may not be forgotten for some time. "Dog owners should know to take precautionary measures during the festive season. If you have a dog that is kept outside you should make sure that the animal is kept in a cage during this time of the year. The cage should be secure where the dog cannot escape. It is also important that you remove all chains from dogs that are kept in gardens. Dogs when frightened can break their chains and run away," Jayawardene said.

She added that in some cases when the dogs break the chains part of the chain still remains on the animal. "If these dogs are running along the road and are not used to the road their chains can get tangled with vehicles and the animals could die. Even without a chain house dogs who are not used to the roads can get knocked down by passing vehicles," Jayawardene explained.

Rajakarunanayake and Jayawardene are of the view that all pet owners should take responsibility towards their pets and ensure that during the festive season the animals are well protected and secure from fire crackers.

 


Of yule logs and other Christmas goodies

The story of the yule log  is a significant part of Christmas traditions. Yule log is a large log burned in the hearth of the house. It is a symbol of prosperity and luck. It is believed, if the tradition is followed with sincerity and devotion, it would bring good health, wealth and productivity in the year ahead.

The story of yule log

The tradition is practiced in many countries and hence several legends are associated with its origin. The most popular story of the yule log dates back to the 12th century. During this period in most of the European countries, the winter festival was celebrated by burning wood and drinking wine. The Solstice festival was Jol (Yule) which was celebrated throughout Northern Europe and Scandinavia.

It was a feast to honour the Norse God, Odin who was the God of Intoxicating Drink. The custom of the yule log emerged from Europe's winter festival.

Tradition of yule log

Burning the yule log is a crucial Christmas tradition today. The custom of yule log varies from region to region. It was originally a large tree brought to the house with great ceremony. On Christmas day, people light the yule log placed in the hearth and wish that it burns for longer.

As per the belief, all the family members must sit on it before it is burnt. It is also customary to say prayers and sing Christmas songs while performing the traditional activities.

In some families, young girls and mothers take the privilege to light the log. The burning of the yule log brings in good fortune for the family and friends and scares off the evil spirits. After the Christmas celebrations, a piece of the yule log is kept to relight next year's log.

The custom of yule log is performed with high spirits and sanctity. Different countries have different ways of performing this tradition. Even different kinds of wood are used today to keep alive the spirit of the tradition. Here are some of the examples of the tradition of yule log performed in different countries:

United Kingdom 

In the UK, the log is called 'The Mock.' Here the log is dried out and taken into the house when its bark is taken out. Oak is the traditional wood used at this time. At some places, oak is replaced with a large bunch of ash twigs. This comes from the legend that the shepherds burned the bunches of twigs to keep Joseph, Mary and their son Jesus warm.

France

In France, the whole family gets engaged in the process of cutting the log. Small pieces of the log are burnt each night of the 12 days of Christmas celebrations. People in France use the cherry tree as the traditional yule log.

Holland

Holland follows the same process of burning the log as does France but here the log is stored under a bed. Today, the yule log has become an important part of televising Christmas traditions.

Moreover, the yule log has also become a traditional delicacy. Yule log cakes have become an essential part of the Christmas feast. People get chocolate log cakes at the time of Christmas.

Christmas Goodies

C          is for the Chocolate Peanut Butter Fudge you make while wrapping gifts.

H          is for the Hazelnuts Amaretto Cream Filled Cake, a great dessert to serve to company.

R          is for Raspberry Chocolate Trifle a dessert  you don't have to share with anyone.

I           is for Royal Vanilla Ice Cream that's never too cold to eat.

S          is for Sugar Cookies you make with your kids.

T          is for Tiramisu; you know, that dessert Tom Hanks' character in Sleepless
            In Seattle thought was some new romantic manoeuvre.

M          is for Maple Walnut Bread, which is made in your bread machine.

A          is for the AHs you get when you make a White Chocolate Macadamia Nut Cheesecake.

S          is for Strawberry French Toast, the perfect company breakfast.
            (Plan ahead! Put it together the night before.)

 


'Tis the season to be jolly

My Beautiful Dreamer has just returned after going out carol-ling to some elders' homes. Apparently, at one place, Santa's pants had descended further than it should have, and his very green undies could be spotted. Never mind, I'm sure the little old ladies won't hold that against him.

At another place, a little fellow had started singing "Happy Birthday To You!" in a very loud voice to everyone's amusement, obviously got the occasion wrong in his excitement. One of B.D.'s friends said, "But I can't sing in tune!" when she was asked to join them. The cheeky things said, "Never mind, half of them will be hard of hearing anyway, so they won't notice!"

I remember how we would go around the neighbourhood at night, lustily singing Christmas carols. At every household, we would be offered cake, Christmas goodies, wine and sometimes even money. After a couple of houses, some of the gents would be quite 'high' and want to end the evening, but we would continue.

Good fun

It was all good fun, and we could pick houses that we wouldn't normally go to, like a house of one of the boys we fancied. There would be much giggling and whispering, more than singing going on there! There would be several groups like us going around, but in those days, huge trays of cakes etc. were made, so there was plenty available. Maybe we could get one-tenth of this quantity at the current prices of ingredients.

One Christmas, the school wanted the choir to go to the mental asylum to sing carols. It looked grim and forbidding then, more like a prison, with lots of barred windows. We were all rather nervous, none of us having been there before.

Anyway, we were shown around a ward with the more docile patients. Some of them thought we were relatives and some kept coming and giving us messages to give their families. One lady thought she was a queen and had even fashioned a cloak around her shoulders! She had heavy make-up on and lots of fake jewellery. It was all rather sad.

Baila session

 Then we were ushered into a hall with a stage. There was pin drop silence. It was all quite unnerving, since none of them even smiled at us, they seemed to be glaring. So we launched into our repertoire, but they didn't seem impressed at all.

The nun who accompanied us hissed from the wings of the stage, "Sing the more popular ones, like "Rudolph!" We were still met with this deadpan silence and not a single clap. Then some of us walked off stage and said, "Sister, they aren't responding at all! Shall we stop?" She said, "Shall we try some baila?"

"You!" (Pointing at me, the class clown) "You can get them going, can't you?" When I protested I didn't know the words but would horse around and clap, she said, "Okay, those who know the words sing along, we have to find something they like." So off we went, with me, shouting, "Hai! Hoi!"etc.

Used to lunatics

Whilst stomping my feet and clapping and generally making a huge noise, lo and behold, suddenly some of them charged onto the stage and started dancing near us. Some girls were terrified and were not singing properly, but as for me, I had grown up amidst lunatics, my dad's family members were all eccentric, so I was quite used to weird people.

So, we kept on with the baila, and the noisier it became, the more they seemed to enjoy themselves. This was one carol singing experience I will never forget.

We had a party to go to immediately afterwards, I must say we were all rather subdued in the school bus on the way back; we had seen much to ponder about. There wasn't the usual breathless chatter about which boys were coming and what we were going to wear etc.

Our church choir went carolling once with the purpose of collecting funds for a children's home. The leader had arranged for us to visit some ambassadorial residencies and places like that. We were given much more than we bargained for and had quite a collection at the end of it all.

Then, (of course!) the boys wanted to spend part of it on a party for us. The girls fiercely objected. Then they wanted to buy something for the Youth Club, which we also vehemently rejected. I'm glad to say the money was used for the original purpose. Hooray for girls!

- Honky Tonk Woman

  


HUMOUR 

The guy in the suit

Q: Why is Christmas just like a day at the office ?

A: You do all the work and the fat guy in the suit gets all the credit. 

Santa's outfit

How do you know Santa has to be a man?

No woman is going to wear the same outfit year after year. 

The three stages of man:

1) He believes in Santa Claus.

2) He doesn't believe in Santa Claus.

3) He is Santa Claus.  

Christmas Spirit

It was just before Christmas and the magistrate was in a happy mood. He asked the prisoner who was in the dock, 'What are you charged with?'

The prisoner replied, 'Doing my Christmas shopping too early.'

'That's no crime,' said the magistrate. 'Just how early were you doing this shopping?'

'Before the shop opened,' answered the prisoner.  

A car for Christmas

Danny had recently passed his driving test and decided to ask his clergyman father if there was any chance of him getting a car for Christmas, which was yet some months away.

'Okay.' Said his father "I tell you what I'll do. If you can get your 'A' level grades up to 'A's and 'B's, study your Bible and get your hair cut, I'll consider the matter very seriously."

A couple of months later Danny went back to his father who said 'I'm really impressed by your commitment to your studies. Your grades are excellent and the work you have put into your Bible studies is very encouraging. However, I have to say I'm very disappointed that you haven't had your hair cut yet.

Danny was a smart young man who was never lost for an answer. 'Look dad, in the course of my Bible studies I've noticed in the illustrations that Moses, John the Baptist, Samson and even Jesus had long hair.' 'Yes. I'm aware of that...' Replied his father '... but did you also notice they walked wherever they went?'  

Looking for Harry

As soon as Mrs. Jones arrived at the gates of Heaven she sought her husband, who had died several years before.

"Excuse me," she said, approaching the gatekeeper, "but I'm looking for my husband. I wonder if you can help me."

"What is his name?" the gatekeeper inquired.

"Harry ... Harry Jones," she replied.

The gatekeeper stroked his chin. "There are many here who have that name. What else can you tell me about him?"

Blurting out the first thing that came to mind, she said, "Well, the last thing he said before he died was that if I were ever unfaithful to him, he would turn in his grave."

"Ah!" said the gatekeeper, "you're looking for Pin-Wheel Harry.

Simple home remedies

1. If you're choking on an ice cube, simply pour a cup of boiling water down your throat. Presto! The blockage will instantly remove itself.

2. Avoid cutting yourself when slicing vegetables by getting someone else to hold the vegetables while you chop.

3. Avoid arguments with the females about lifting the toilet seat by using the sink.

4. For high blood pressure sufferers, simply cut yourself and bleed for a few minutes, thus reducing the pressure on your veins. Remember to use a timer.

5. A mouse trap placed on top of your alarm clock will prevent you from rolling over and going back to sleep after you hit the snooze button.

6. If you have a bad cough, take a large dose of laxatives. Then you'll be afraid to cough.

7. You only need two tools in life - WD40 and duct tape. If it doesn't move and should, use the WD40. If it shouldn't move and does, use the duct tape.

8. Remember - everyone seems normal until you get to know them.

9. If you can't fix it with a hammer, you've got an electrical problem.

Daily thought:

Some people are like slinkies - not really good for anything but they bring a smile to your face when pushed down the stairs 

Exam time

Q: What do elves learn in school?

A: The Elf-abet!

Q: If athletes get athletes foot, what do astronauts get?

A: Missletoe!

Q: What do you get when you cross a snowman with a vampire?

A: Frostbite.

Q: Why was Santa's little helper depressed?

A: Because he had low elf esteem.

Q: Where do polar bears vote?

A: The North Poll.

Q: What do you get when you cross an archer with a gift-wrapper?

A: Ribbon hood.

Q: What was wrong with the boy's brand new toy electric train set he received for Christmas?

A: Forty feet of track - all straight!

Q: How does Al Gore's household keep Christmas politically correct?

A: On Christmas morning, they give the presents TO the tree.

Q: How do sheep in Mexico say Merry Christmas?

A: Fleece Navidad!

Q: What nationality is Santa Claus?

A: North Polish.

Q: Why does Santa's sled get such good mileage?

A: Because it has long-distance runners on each side.

Q: What do you call a bunch of grandmasters of chess bragging about their games in a hotel lobby?

A: Chess nuts boasting in an open foyer!

Q: What did the ghosts say to Santa Claus?

A: We'll have a boo Christmas without you.

Q: Why does Santa Claus go down the chimney on Christmas Eve?

A: Because it " soots " him!

Q: What do you call people who are afraid of Santa Claus?

A: Claustrophobic.

Q: Why does Scrooge love Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer?

A: Because every buck is dear to him.       

 


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