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To Lanka with love from any land

Home is now
just a click away (inset) Manju Gunawardene,
Clarence Welikala
and Lohini de Fonseka
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By Ranee Mohamed
Love thy neighbour as thyself, says the
Bible, but the rising cost of living and
rat-race existence has shut our neighbours
out of our lives. This is why LankAssist
springs into existence today, February 8, as
the web is launched here in
Sri Lanka
and celebrated in California as a tribute to
help every citizen in every land.
"This is a whole new concept designed to
help Sri Lankans living abroad or any person
in any country to reach out and help a
parent, spouse child or friend in Sri
Lanka," pointed out Consultant, LankAssist,
Clarence Welikala.
"Be it medical and family health services,
security and protection, financial and
legal, property management, pet and animal
care, wedding services, gifts, flowers,
food, event management, education services,
personalised services, religious services,
or vacation assistance, LankAssist will step
in," said Welikala.
Come to your aid
In neighbourly language, LankAssist will
come to your aid when you are overseas or
even in our own
Sri Lanka
if you wish someone to take your parents to
hospital, do your sister's wedding
arrangements, send gifts to your girlfriend,
or arrange an alms giving in your home. If
you lose a loved one then LankAssist will
reach out to you the moment a caring hand
clicks on the mouse.
Life is filled with difficult tasks
proceedures and arrangements and for those
domiciled overseas, the task of reaching out
to help their loved ones in Sri Lanka is
even more hard a task.
But LankAssist promises to do it all for
your loved ones here.
"Gone are the days when the neighbour was
your best friend and had all the time in the
world to take your mother to hospital while
you earned your dollars," pointed out
Consultant Clarence Welikala.
Scattered all over the world
"Things are very different today. There are
hundreds of senior citizens living in this
country - in the north, south, east and west
who have their children scattered all over
the world who want to do much for their
loving mother and father, yet cannot find
anyone to do it for them," pointed out
Welikala.
"When one is alone and his/her needs abound
and a sense of helplessness sets in.this is
where we step in. Our vision is laced with
the human touch and it is with happiness
that we help. Besides, we are fully aware
that such a loving gesture ought to be
properly accompanied - with the same
feelings of loving and giving," said
Welikala.
Register as a user
"Our Chairman Vijitha Welikala, an
ex-commando, a senior officer in the first
batch of commandos directs an industrial,
commercial and security venture for over 20
years. LankAssist is Vijitha Welikala's
brainchild," said Clarence Welikala.
"As we have over 3000 cadres based within
the group, the work of LankAssist will be
done promptly and precisely," promised
Consultant Welikala.
Director Manju Gunewardene said "all one has
to do is go to our website and register as a
user free of charge and then go through the
list of services."
"It was when I was living in New Zealand
that I too discovered the need to reach out
to loved ones in Sri Lanka but did not have
a way to do it," said Head of Marketing
Lohini de Fonseka who has an
interior-designing qualification from New
Zealand.
Exclusive product
"We have web chat, Skype and voice email and
our own web notes," pointed out Director
Manju Gunewardene who has been working hard
to brush up the finer points of this
exclusive product and service oriented
website.
LankAssist is also for any national from any
land. "If they wish to find a hospital here,
or any other kind of service, LankAssist is
the way," said Welikala.
A service of the future, LankAssist will not
only sell lands and assist in the legal
documentation but will also make funeral
arrangements on the instructions of a user.
They also plan to provide equipment as
technical support for events.
LankAssist and their staff will also handle
education consultation and education
documentation, translations, educational
certificates, and handle original and true
copies.
"We will also handle total travel packages.
Working with a fleet of vehicles which are
reliable, travel to and from the airport
will be a smooth exercise," said Lohini de
Fonseka. The over 54 services on offer are
too wide and varied to be listed here.
As time flies, services of the future are
all in the making. LankAssist, being web
based is a clear case of reaching out to the
future by reaching out to one's loved one's
via the computer screen.

Feeling the warmth of
Sri Lankans in New York
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Sri Lankans in New York |
By Rajitha Unantenna in New York
New York
is a cosmopoli-tan city. In this hap-pening
place are thou-sands of people who have left
their homes behind and have made themselves
a home away from home. Strangely, at most
times, their homes consist of just one
person.
Staten Island in New York is exclusive in its cool splendour. There is a picture-book beauty
about
Staten Island. But more beautiful is the
fact that I met many Sri Lankans who were
able to relate tales about our sunny land.
In this cold month of January, it is yet
winter here in
New York,
and I am wondering whether I am looking at a
film or a picturebook.
As the snow falls down lazily, the coldness
is quick in filling every nook and corner of
life and living. I find that I cannot bear
this cold anymore - minus 10 degrees is not
the climate I'm used to.
But things have to be done. Life has to go
on and one just cannot blame the weather .
Going out means different kinds of clothing.
Who in Sri Lanka is used to wearing
T-Shirts, blazers, coats, socks, mitten, and
wool caps to merely walk to the shop at the
corner to get your groceries?
So many clothes does not do much for one's
appearance. "The weather is terrible," they
say, but this does not stop them from going
out.
Adapted to cold weather
One must work to live and each one has his
or her day's work to do. I think people here
have adapted themselves to different kinds
of cold weather - from the chilly cold to
the snowy cold. As for me, like every other
Sri Lankan, I just don't feel like stepping
out from the warmth of home.
The USA is undoubtedly a great country to
live in. And many Sri Lankans, just like
countless people from other countries try
hard to be American. But what they ought to
note is that the USA of today is not the one
of days gone by. Jobs are hard to find and
business is slack.
Some people are forced to work less hours
and they are certainly not happy about this
change because life here is by no means
easy. However people expect their new
President Barack Obama to fix the situation
as soon as he can.He seems to have brought
about a great sense of hope among the people
I have met.
Cost of living is high
Dinesh Kodithuwakku who lives in
New York's
Staten Island works for a professional
moving company.
He said "I have been living in New York for
the past nine years and I have a lot of
experience living in New York. Today however I find that the cost of living is very high and we
have to work very hard to earn a living
here. It's a very cold winter but still we
have to work."
"To be honest, I came here to earn and go
back to my beautiful country Sri Lanka and
live a comfortable life there. It turned out
to be only a dream for me. I am so sad to
tell you I still couldn't go back since I
came here," he said.
In the meantime, he fell in love and
married a girl from
Sri Lanka
and is a father now. "I really do not know
when I can visit my only brother," he said.
When asked why he cannot leave the US and go
back to Sri Lanka with his family,
Kodithuwakku said: "If we are going to Sri
Lanka, we have to save some money. If we
work hard we can earn dollars and live a
comfortable life here, but saving money is
truly a big problem especially because of
the high expenses, the taxes, loans, bills
and rent that we have to pay."
Just like for many families, before marriage
the wife too works, but after a child comes
into their lives, then the wife has to
remain at home and look after the child
because daycare centres can be very
expensive when one considers the fact that
the payment for such a centre exceeds one's
earnings.
No one to help us
"We have to do everything on our own here.
We cannot forget Sri Lanka because we have
many people around us and also people to
look after our children and help us.
Sometimes we feel lonely here.We have few
friends who are busy just as we are, yet we
meet whenever possible and enjoy meals or
trips," said Kodithuwakku.
When asked what is most missed about Sri
Lanka, Dinesh Kodithuwakku said, "I am so
sad to tell you that I miss my mother, my
brother, our friends, culture, the very nice
weather, our freedom, food such as kos,
ambulthiyal, the different kinds of greens
like mukunuwenna and angunakola."
He also said that the rules and regulations
can sometimes be stifling. "They are very
strict here. For example, when snow falls,
we have to clear our paths of snow before
we leave for work, if we neglect it for some
reason we are fined. In New York if we park
our vehicles in a wrong place or miss the
time we have to again pay a heavy fine," he
said.
"There are of course the positive side to
all this. The standard of living is very
high and if a child is born here they are
well taken care of and this is a very good
country to educate our children and for
their future," observed Kodithuwakku.
Ms. Withanachchi has been living in New
York for the past 11 years. She came to New
York from Colombo.
Make Sri Lanka safe
"I came to
New York to join my husband who works here and also to collect some
money to help our parents in
Sri lanka. We would have loved to stay and
work in our own country if we had a better
and safer life back in our own beautiful
country. I wish our politicians will make
Sri Lanka
a safe and more pleasant place to live in.
Many of us Sri Lankans come here leaving all
their loved ones behind just to earn a
living for their families.
"The husbands who leave their wives and
children behind and come here suffer in the
cold winter working in gas stations to earn
the dollars. It is sad that people in
Sri Lanka
think that when one is in the USA everything
is nice and rosy and that we are all having
a great time just like they show in the
films. But in real life it is not so,"
pointed out Withanachchi.
"We really miss Sri Lanka and we ask
everyone back home if things are better now
and the answer is please don't make the
mistake of coming to Sri Lanka now. We have
two kids and it's very difficult to make a
decision for their future in Sri Lanka. We
don't know when the time to get back will
come. All depends on the situation in our
country and what Sri Lanka has to offer our
children," she said.
Love New York
"I have to tell you that I love New York
because we earn here and it's a lovely and
lively city. We have to remember that our
children get many benefits, and health-wise
too it is very good. I think our children
have a better future here even though it's
not our country. We certainly have to work
hard in this country and serve the people
which we could have done back home in our
own country, yet the benefits are different
here," she said.
It was sad to note that some Sri Lankans
observed 'changes' among fellow countrymen
and women when in the US. "It is sad to see
that the USA has changed some Sri Lankans.
We have to be together. We ought to be there
for each other," said Withanachchi.
"We do have Sri Lankan societies here and we
discuss charities and organise Sri Lankan
festivals and parties. We have come to the
forefront to help victims of the tsunami,"
she pointed out.
Sri Lankan restaurants
She went on to say that there are several
Sri Lankan restaurants in New York. It was
a notable fact that Sri Lankans in
New York
cooked Sri Lankan food in their homes. "Stringhoppers,
pol sambol and hoppers are available even in
New York. We cook all these things at home
too."
Sanjay Handapangoda is the proprietor of
Lakruwana (San Rasa) Gourmet Sri Lankan
Restaurant in New York's Staten Island. An
active Sri Lankan, Handapangoda is a delight
to talk to, just as his culinary creations.
He juggles between answering the phone,
welcoming customers and pan roasting spices.
It looks like an impossible exercise, but
Handapangoda with his skill, dedication and
entrepreneurship is able to come up with
great ideas and turn them into great
successes.
When we think about food San Rasa deserves
applause. One important fact is that this is
the only sit-down Sri Lankan food joint on
the Island with waiter service and a wide
array of items. There are many Sri Lankan
food 'joints' which serve food 'cafeteria
style.'
If you are truly interested in experiencing
traditional cuisine from Sri Lanka, at San
Rasa, one can find everything from
Mulligatawny onwards.
There are different kinds of appetisers;
one can enjoy vegetable cutlets, fried
patties stuffed with potato and pumpkin
with boiled minced veggies, fish cutlets,
spring rolls stuffed with mashed potato and
garlic, fresh ginger and lemon juice.
Devilled dishes incorporate stir-fried meat
or seafood with rice. What is particularly
interesting is that the kitchen roasts and
then grinds whole spices like cloves, cumin
seed, cardamom and fenugreek to order, and
even cinnamon sticks are freshly grated onto
dishes.
Mango and passion fruit juices are freshly
squeezed and mixed with basil seed. There
are the irresistible salty, sweet lassis'
and faluda. Home made desserts such as
pudding, cream caramel, mango mousse,
kiripani, and yoghurt and honey are very
popular desserts.
The two 'must try' items to order on the
menu are lamprais, string hoppers andhoppers.
Hoppers and string hoppers are served with a
choice of curries such as lamb, prawn,
kingfish, calamari, vegetables, seeni sambol,
lunumiris, pol sambol, ambulthiyal etc.
Banana leaf
It is amazing how the lamprais, with the
banana leaf can be found here in New York.
They go a step further here in New York and
present a vegetarian version with mallun to
the vegetarians. Sanjay Handapangoda has
changed the lives of Sri Lankans in
Staten Island,
New York.
"Before I came to
New York, I worked as a chef in
Saudi Arabia. I traveled the world with my
employer. After a few years, I returned to
my motherland, Sri Lanka. I was interested
in visiting New York and came here on a
visit visa. My intended mother in law was
living here at that time. When I was living
here I had the urge to eat from a Sri Lankan
restaurant and found Lakruwana Sri Lankan
Restaurant on Staten Island. While enjoying
the food, I talked to the owner of Lakruwana,
and he encouraged me to do something here
and he sponsored me to work here. After some
time I was able to open my own restaurant as
San Rasa. I did not go back thereafter and
prepared all the necessary documents and
brought my wife also to NY. Now I have two
kids who were born here in NY," said
Handapangoda.

'Who is this man?'

By Sonali
Samarasinghe Wickrematunge
Last week many may have heard the rant of a
US citizen now part of a government waging a
war affecting thousands of citizens of Sri
Lanka, as he asked a BBC correspondent
derisively, who Lasantha Wickrematunge was.
"Why are you asking me about this man," he
said disdainfully. Who he implied, would
concern himself with this man who wrote to a
tabloid. "Why are you concerned with the
death of one man, when thousands are being
killed by the LTTE," he was to ask the BBC.
And therein lies the answer to Gotabaya
Rajapakse's question.
For Lasantha Wickrematunge was a man who was
concerned with the death of one man as much
as he was concerned with the death of
thousands. He was concerned with the death
of one man whether he was Sinhalese, Tamil,
Muslim, Christian, Buddhist, Hindu, gay,
straight, rich or poor. This I know to be
true. This thousands knew to be true also.
"We feel like orphans now," a member of the
Diaspora wrote in a condolence message to
me.
Deeply cared
He deeply cared that soldiers who had paid
the supreme sacrifice were merely reduced
to a number in parliament rather then each
soul respected and honoured by name. His
distaste for war was not a stamp of approval
of the LTTE but rather a reflection of his
gentle spirit. He believed the organisation
should be crushed but not by violating so
horrendously the rights of Tamil citizens.
It deeply hurt him, the plight of the
civilians in the north and east. And therein
lies the difference between a brutish
mentality and a civilised mind. The remark
on BBC by this same US citizen that a
hospital outside the safety zone is a
legitimate military target would have been
more of a blow to Lasantha Wickrematunge's
spirit of justice than the blow he received
at the hands of his assassins on January 8.
When Lasantha and I first met in the
Christmas of 1989 nearly 20 years ago he
was already a giant in journalism. I a cub
reporter at The Sunday Times. I was merely
marking time as I awaited entry to Law
School. In October of 1989 when I walked
into The Sunday Times office for the first
time little was I to know what a strange
trajectory my life would take.
The Sunday Times
Well armed with school certificates and
magazines I had edited including The Aqui
Journalist '88 - an end of year magazine
produced by the journalism students of
Aquinas College, I sat before
Editor-in-Chief Vijitha Yapa and made my
case for recruitment. Yapa was a kindly sort
of chap. He looked at my work, looked at me
and said, smiling slightly, "Sothis is your
work. We have no choice. We must take you."
And there it was.
Not that the pay was any good in those days.
We would come in at 6 a.m and hammer away on
large, rusty typewriters. I remember seeing
Lasantha sometimes in the office but it
left no lasting impression.
Perhaps what did however, was a piece of
paper that fluttered into view one day as
two of my colleagues Laleeni, Vasu and
myself sat around chatting about the
vicissitudes of life. It was a hastily
written note of remuneration for free lance
staff. Leading the list was 'Suranimala' and
against his name the powers that be had
scribbled Rs. 10,000. Twenty years ago as
cub reporters not getting more than a few
hundred a month that figure impressed us a
goodish bit I can tell you. And we oohed and
aahed a little before getting back to work.
Suranimala
Instinctively I knew who Suranimala was. It
was an insignificant talent that would
later impress Lasantha a great deal. I could
always recognise a voice on the phone or
crack a pseudonym with reasonable accuracy.
And he remained amazed till the end.
We next met at a Sunday Times office party
in 1990 I think it was. Later he would tell
me it was the first time he knew that one
day he and I would be married. I was a book
worm and bit of a nerd in school and I
remain nerdy to this day. Ergo in 1990 I
only had academia on my mind. I was also
very much in love and engaged to be married
to a law colleague of mine. In fact I was at
the party with him......and again, hardly
noticed Lasantha.
My next encounter with Lasantha was in the
Court of Appeal where we both practised. We
would often pass each other on the corridors
of Hulftsdorp but on this day he turned to
me as I sat in the court house and told me
he was starting a newspaper called The
Sunday Leader and wanted me to join. By this
time I was writing occasionally to several
newspapers as an arts and theatre critic in
between full time legal practice and I
declined the offer.
Visiting card
In his inimitable way he told me that I
could work part time for the paper and gave
me his card in case I changed my mind. I
remember half heartedly accepting the card
and stuffing it in my purse as I thought to
myself I would never leave the law
profession for journalism. Later one of my
law colleagues, Surane would tell me that
Lasantha would often meet him in court and
ask to be re-introduced to me so that he
may strike up a conversation.
In the meantime I continued in law rather
happily and was able at the time to also do
some modest legal work together with the big
names on the doping case of Susanthika
Jayasinghe and more importantly the
Muralitharan chucking issue for the Ministry
of Sports. It was at the same time that
Hong Kong based ergonomics expert Prof. Ravi
Goonetilleke who happened to be my
brother-in-law conducted a series of tests
on Murali and cleared him scientifically.
The Sunday Leader
Be that as it may, it was some four-five
years later in January 1998 that I walked
into The Sunday Leader offices through a
bizarre turn of events. I had arrived in
Colombo from
Australia
where I had been resident for a space, to
attend to some domestic matters and wanted
to keep up with my writing during that time.
It was to be a short visit not more than six
weeks.
I was to of a morning meet Editor Manik de
Silva of The Island who kindly gave me
various ideas on what I could write on and
then shockingly told me that an acquaintance
of mine had called him up to say I would be
coming for an interview and had 'put in a
good word' for me.
I was immediately put off by this turn of
events, as I am a great believer in merit
and the strength of ones own abilities and
academic prowess. Obviously I had earlier
made the mistake of making polite
conversation with this acquaintance by
mentioning in passing that I was due to
meet Manik de Silva to discuss some space to
write. So I scuttled off and having
thoroughly castigated my acquaintance for
daring to pull strings as it were and
feeling that now writing to The Island would
be forever sullied by this, I was told by a
law colleague to call up The Sunday Leader.
Best in the world
Meanwhile I had followed with considerable
interest Lasantha's masterly expose on the
Joel Pera murder case. In my opinion the
investigative articles he personally wrote
and the standard of the expose on the Pera
case that he so expertly spearheaded was so
spiffingly high it was the best the world
had seen - in my opinion of course.
Anyway it was only then I remembered that
Lasantha had given me a visiting card five
years before. I hurriedly rummaged in my
purse for it and amazingly it was still
there browned with age. I called him up.
"Mr. Wickrematunge," I said. "I'm Sonali
Samarasinghe Attorney-at-law I wonder if you
remember me? I am in Colombo for a few
weeks and would like to write."
"Of course I remember you," he said rather
quickly hastening to add even more quickly,
"please start today." "Today is
inconvenient, let me look at my diary," I
said as if I were a busy executive when in
reality I didn't have a thing to do having
just arrived from Aussie. I did go in, the
next day met Lasantha and started work with
Wijith Chickera now the editor of LMD, then
the Chief Sub Editor and Arts Editor of The
Sunday Leader and Marwaan Macan Macar, then
Features Editor as my interests were˙arts,
theatre and social issues.
But within a week or two Lasantha called
upon me to help him with investigations due
to my legal background. Soon he had passed
on all the investigative writing to me and
Lasantha who was hitherto handling the
investigations himself felt he was finally
free to concentrate on politics.
Awards
That year - 1998 - we won the 'Scoop of the
Year' Award by the Editors' Guild for work I
had done on the missing Mulkirigala
painting. Under Lasantha's editorship the
newspaper won 'The Journalist of the Year'
title on every occasion it participated in
the national award scheme. Since 1998 the
newspaper swept the boards with other top
awards as well including 'Scoop of the
Year,' 'Columnist of the Year' and 'Best
English Journalist of the Year.'
For Lasantha this was validation of his work
and a confirmation of the dedication of his
staff to the causes he espoused. Funnily
enough it is this 'tabloid' as Gotabaya
calls it that consistently won all the top
awards from 1998 up until 2007. In 2008 The
Sunday Leader was barred from participating
in the award scheme stating it had not
provided free advertising to the Sri Lanka
Press Institute. A matter Lasantha strongly
felt would tantamount to bribery and
corruption if he did.
Man of integrity
Lasantha was an International Integrity
Award winner in 2000 and was presented the
award in Canada. Last September the
newspaper was awarded the Global Shining
Light Award for Investigative Journalism
for a series of investigative articles I had
written on Mervyn Silva and the involvement
of the highest in the land in a cover up.
He was proud of that international
achievement specially in the year when the
local awards scheme had so unfairly kept the
newspaper out. It was Uvindu Kulakulasuriya,
convenor FMM who had alerted me that
countries across the globe were
participating for the award and so should
we. Lasantha and I were thrilled when we
were actually shortlisted and ecstatic that
we won it. Lasantha would call Uvindu
afterwards to thank him.
A call of conscience
Ironically I had come down to
Colombo
in December 1997 only for six weeks. I
stayed on for 11 years because of The
Sunday Leader. Lasantha was to tell his
senior, President's Counsel Ranjith
Abeysuriya in 1994, "Sir, I will be back in
six weeks once I get the paper going." He
stayed on for nearly 15 years until his
death.
However, there are moments in our two shared
lives so strangely entwined that make my
eyes now dulled with tears, to still
sparkle. The time for instance that he and I
sat in a street cafe in Madrid, he ordering
a humongous whole roast chicken and I a
small sliver of fish. I recall him blushing
with embarrassment as passers by looked
shocked at the bird on his plate.
The exquisite days in
Paris
when he like so many other romantics before
him asked me to marry him under the Eiffel
Tower. Or the time in Brussels when he
placed his foot on a short ledge on the
road and jokingly asked me if I could please
tie his shoe lace - again much to the shock
of passers by.
Lasantha's forte was politics. But I would
drag him for the premier of The Graduate
with Kathleen Turner at the West End and he
grumbled as we sat in the nose bleed section
- the only tickets we could afford.
I told him he must see Buddy. It was to be
the only musical I forced him to see that he
perhaps actually enjoyed. It may have been
Tim Rice and Elton John at work but during
Aida on Broadway as I watched mesmerised,
not so Lasantha. He sat on a fairly
expensive seat next to me and caught up on
lost sleep for two hours.
And many more memories. Of choking on horse
radish in a heurigen in Vienna's 19th
district. Of walking down the cobbled
streets of a village in Switzerland and
longing for a peaceful life. Of feeling
pampered and wonderful at the Versace Hotel
in the Gold Coast. I am reclusive and
private by nature and would often moot the
idea of living on a large farm in remote
Australia. 'You would get bored before
long,' he told me. 'We are both addicted to
this life now, it's a vicious cycle.'
He and I would hire a car and drive along
the coast of Australia and whenever I wanted
to help with the suitcases or with some
heavy bags he brushed me aside quickly.
They'll think I'm letting the woman do all
the work he would say. However one must add
that he had no such qualms in Sri Lanka.
Book club
Lasantha and I belonged to a book club. A
book club of two members. He and I. We took
it very seriously and would discuss each
book over dinner at a restaurant. Once a
friend who had observed wild gesturing and
heated conversation came up to us and asked
if we were fighting. "Yes," he said, 'over
this book machang, and she has lost the
plot.'
On the day before he died Lasantha told me
to check the internet for accommodation in
Australia or Canada. In Australia he wanted
us to find a house in Melbourne. The choice
of state was because it would then be easy
for him to have access to his three
beautiful children whom he adored.
We were looking for cheap accommodation in
Dandenong or
Noble Park.
It was something he had told me to do even
a month before. He also wanted me to check
for possible jobs for him. I told him that
as I had part of my education in Australia
it would be easier for me to get a job. I
told him I am ready to leave any time and
that it was he who had to make the decision
about the newspaper. Okay he told me
smiling. "It will be soon."
But he often toyed with going to Canada as
well. It is a country that held his heart
because his beloved parents and sisters
resided there. He could never talk enough
about them. He would often take me to
Kotahena - the city he grew up in and
delight in giving me a guided tour. He had
done it so many times that I knew the places
well but I always pretended I had seen it
for the first time.
He would show me lanes and houses and even a
rock he said he had sat on and eaten a
thosai. He was intrigued that I had been
born at the Police Bungalow at Hill House
Gardens and baptised in the Anglican Gal
Palliya close by. 'So you are ultimately
from my neck o' the woods too,' he would
tease. Though just as often he would tease
me about being elitist and privileged and
unaware of the grassroots. "You Ladies
College Colombo 7 girls," he would chide.
That last night at the Cricket Club where we
had dinner he ate spaghetti bolognaise. It
was his favourite dish. He told me, "My
sister cooks a mean bolognaise, when we go
to Canada, you will taste her cooking - it's
the best," he said proudly. Earlier that
week he had called up his travel agent and
booked us two tickets to
Canada
for May 8.
As we travelled back home that night little
was I to know that in a few hours my best
friend of 11 years and my husband would be
dead. This column started in June
1998. It chronicled the life of a woman who
adored her family, delighted in nature and
was able hopefully to laugh at herself. On
January 8 the Life was leeched out of Eve
even as it was cajoled out of her Adam by
foul assassins.
Life has no more to offer Eve in its
poisoned garden of eden.
Today Eve dies.

The Galle Literary
Festival, in retrospect
|

Colin Thubron |
A small African man ap-proaches an even
smaller, glowing red, Australian gentleman
in a lurid bush shirt,
"Mr. Keneally you know you are my favourite
author,"
"Ah the renowned Mr. Isegawa who
would have ever thought that we'd
finally meet in
Sri Lanka."
Serendipity. That rather hackneyed and
generally abused term - finds true
expression at the Galle Literary Festival.
And like the fortuitous meeting of acclaimed
authors in the maze of the fort, it was a
series of happy, again serendipitous,
coincidences that gave rise to the festival
- a British businessman, a Dutch fort, a
tropical island - in the first place.
And the festival in turn gives rise to more
happy and unlikely coincidences - Booker
Prize winning authors negotiating Galle's
narrow lanes, sudden spur of the moment
creative collaborations between local
literary personalities and innumerable
chance reunions and impromptu meetings.
In fact in the context a Booker Prize wining
Australian author stumbling across a fan,
who happens to be a rising literary
star from Uganda, is hardly remarkable
at all.
What really stands out about the festival
is the intense creativity that runs through
the entire event from - the intelligent use
of Galle's various spaces to the variety of
the events and workshops that take place.
The very concept - a literary festival
in Sri Lanka, is fabulously creative and the
idea of stimulating interest and tourism in
the country through literature is
fantastically novel.
What is perhaps more fantastic about the
concept is that it works. Hotels across
Galle are full for the duration of the
festival - and for a change Sri Lanka is
mentioned not for some natural or engineered
calamity, but for its beauty and the
creative talent of its people.
There exists in Galle, for the few days of
the festival, a real buzz that cuts through
the fear, depression and disorder that at
times seems to dominate life on the island.
With its streets teeming with local and
international visitors, caf‚s and
restaurants filled with people dissecting
yesterday's discussions and workshops for
the duration of the festival the ancient
Fort feels refreshingly alive.
From its inception the festival has somehow
succeed in defeating the pessimism that
often surrounds the country but of course
the Galle Literary Festival is more than
just a tourist promotion event;
International personalities interacting with
local academics, artists and intellectuals,
old stalwarts like Anne Ranasinghe and
young stars like Ameena Hussein all share
the confined space of the Fort and the level
of discussion and conversation that results
is genuinely impressive.
The breadth of topics covered, everything
from Islam and poetry to conservation - has
grown over the years and the event is no
longer ˙an exclusively literary festival but
deals with a whole spectrum of cultural,
creative and artistic topics.
While literary heavy weights of the order of
Vikram Seth were notably absent from this
year's event, even this, 'lower key'
festival, was able to boast such luminaries
as Thomas Keneally and such vividly and
controversial personalities as Germaine
Greer.
Significantly however, this year the
festival had much more of a local flavour
with pride of place given to local artists.
In past years the festival has been
criticized for being foreign even somehow
colonial in character but like so many other
foreign/ colonial influences the festival is
slowly and inevitably being localised.
The festival is no longer simply an
opportunity for moneyed expats to oggle
famous foreigners, and it now provides the
local, English reading, public with access
to Sri Lankan writers - Romesh
Gunasekera, Yasmine Guneratne, who have
succeeded in making a mark on the wider
world.
With a host of young Sri Lankan writers also
on display the event has become as much a
forum for aspiring local writers as a stage
for international literary heavy weights.
Another extraordinary aspect of the festival
is that the various authors aren't simply
placed on a pedestal as totemic visiting
dignitaries rather they are, when not
delivering lectures and workshops, let
loose to wander through the warren of the
fort.
You can start a conversation with Colin
Thubron while he's looking a little lost -
or accost Thomas Keneally while he's
standing in line at the drinks counter.
In fact in the creative chaos of the
festival its hard to know whose a literary
super star and who is simply a
tourist.
Seeing as the entire literary, dramatic and
creative corps of Sri Lankan society is
gathered in such a small space nearly
everyone you meet is a writer, a poet a
photographer, or a short film maker, anyway.
For Sri Lanka's creative class the festival
has become Mecca, as it succeeds in cutting
through the isolation so keenly felt by
those working/ writing in English in the
country. And the true value of the festival
lies not in its various cocktails parties
and its gourmet dinners but in the
opportunity it gives local writers to meet,
network and discover each others talent and
works. It is simply the only occasion where
so many of country's creative personalities
are gathered in such close proximity.
Of course to say the event is entirely free
of expat snobbery and general elitism would
be going too far - this is naturally a
somewhat elitist event - appealing mainly to
expats and Colombo's English
literature-loving classes.
Attempts have been made however to
make the event more accessible with
discounted tickets for students and a
festival volunteer scheme, and anyone from
any background who appreciates English
literature would have been able to
appreciate the quality of the workshops and
lectures.
Watching local school children attending
Michael Morpurgo's talks on children's
literature was particularly s satisfying.
Ultimately the gathering of so many artists,
poets, and playwrights in the dusty street
of the ancient fort - is a heady mix,
and the whole spectacle is enough to inspire
even those without any previous inkling to
take an interest in the world of literature.
And that is really what the festival is
about - it makes you want to read to write
and to become more a part of the creative
world and process that can, in the special
atmosphere of the fort, feel genuinely
magical.
Now in its third year - having experienced
various minor dramas and the predictable
uncertainly of this island and prevailed the
Galle Literary Festival has succeeded in
becoming something of a story in itself.
- R. Wijewardene


Making and breaking resolutions
Like someone once said, New Year resolutions
are those that go in one year and out
through the other. So have you already
broken some of yours? Oh, all of them!
So I'm not the only guilty one. I certainly
have! I have gained all the weight I lost.
My good friends and family keep reminding me
of this fact. I suppose that's a way to show
they care?
Anyway, every year we go through the
vicious circle of making and breaking
resolutions. I think the desire is there,
but the will is weak! How can one not put on
weight when you are forced to attend all
these weddings, high teas, brunches and
parties?
I think the best solution is to get sick
just before Christmas and try and remain ill
after the New Year. That might do the trick!
Or my friend who is so lucky, she has a
valid excuse to skip all these functions.
Her husband is one of the leading floral
decorators, and so they have loads of
functions to adorn. So they are plenty
exercised, and they make lots of money too!
Isn't that a superb way to bring in the New
Year or what? Of course, they are very
religious and help lots of less fortunate
people and attend church services regularly.
I have already not exercised every day,
although I meant to do so.
Not much choice
One does not have much choice, after all
when your dear friends are on holiday, you
have to look after them properly, don't you?
That includes taking them shopping, to see
other friends and that sort of thing. Then
with all the socialising, you are totally
zinged out at the end of the day.
Every time we met for dinner, we planned to
hit one of the nightspots and dance our
cares away. Burn those calories! But sadly,
at the end of the day, after over-indulging
oneself on very rich food, all we wanted to
do was hit the sack. I was really
disappointed.
I have already lost my temper several times
and screamed very nastily like a fishwife
several times. Oh dear, so that deals with
most of my resolutions. Sometimes trying to
be a better person than you were the last
year can be so stressful!
Someone said, live every day like it was
your 50th birthday. I guess that's a good
philosophy, celebrate good times, come on! I
had a wonderful time on mine. It was also
said that the period of youth is when you
are allowed to stay up really late on New
Year's Eve, but when middle age creeps up,
you are just forced to.
A popular belief that is still practised on
New Year's Day is that one should choose
carefully with whom you see the New Year in.
On the stroke of midnight, you should greet
the New Year by kissing your beloved and
dear ones since this would mean you have
warm relations with them the year through.
Popular superstition
In a country like ours however, we politely
and warmly wish anyone who crosses our path.
I think that is good, too. Another popular
superstition is that you should start the
New Year with a clean slate of no unpaid
bills. I wonder if that's possible for most
of us these days?
The other tradition is to wear new clothes,
signifying you will be nattily clad the year
through! The most enjoyable tradition is
making lots of noise, this activity is meant
to chase the evil spirits away for the
coming year.
This is rigorously enforced in our country,
where we light strings of crackers and other
noisy fireworks. Then at all dances and
social gatherings, we lustily blow on
whistles and party horns. Ships and cars too
toot their horns. Spirits begone!
The first visitor to your house is also
supposed to bring good luck if he is tall
and dark haired. Treat him well and give him
gifts. Keep away blondes and redheads.
That's easy here! The most popular song is
Auld Lang Syne, the lyrics of which were
from a poem by Robert Burns.
The first New Year was celebrated in 2000 BC
in Mesopotamia. Persians, Greeks and
Egyptians celebrated it too, but it was
Julius Caesar the Roman Emperor who made the
1st of January officially the beginning of
the New Year. May all your troubles last as
long as your New Year resolutions!
My wish to you all is have a good year,
much better and more fulfilling than the
last!
- Honky Tonk Woman |